Someone I love said something cruel to me today and I didn’t respond.  I let them walk away and I didn’t run to a corner with a sob. I didn’t chase them down and confront them. Without emotion, I wondered if my heart was hard.  I wasn’t wounded and out of control.  But I also had no clue.  I said “Help me here, Jesus. Help me with this situation.”  He immediately gave me a message and a vision.

The message was “Ignore it.  Don’t give it attention.  Walk back into the relationship as though nothing ever happened, but see it this way.”  The vision was of a continued relationship in love without cruel, bad behavior.  The disappearance of bad behavior wasn’t the result of confrontation or discussion but because I didn’t believe in it.  It wasn’t Truth.  It wasn’t how Father created this person.  Therefore it was a LIE. So I called it a LIE and refused to accept it as part of them.

In the past, my heart would have been broken and I would have sobbed for some time.  During the sobs, I would have thought of cruel words regarding that person.  I would have seen their inability to control their behavior and I would have heard words like: abusive, critical, controlling, and angry.  I would have believed those words and said them to myself over and over.  Sometimes I would have repeated the words to another person.

Now I could see my own behavior was creating more of the same bad behavior in them.  I was creating.  It is how Father made me.  But I was creating contrary to His creation.

This time, I called it a LIE and refused its existence in this person.  Not only that, but in the next opportunity for interaction, I continued our relationship as though it never happened.  My heart was not hard, rather it was creative.  It was a new outcome, a new response, a new possibility. I could still love.

Your comment might be “if we ignore bad behavior, it continues”. We believe the bad behavior is the truth.  But I now understand that what I believe in my heart is the Truth.  What Father created is the Truth and He did not create bad behavior.  I believe this, and this is the Truth that changes fact.  This is the Truth that creates healing, abundance, and answered prayer.  I had asked for help and He had shown me Truth.  My only responsibility was to believe and walk in it; to be a Son (Daughter) and do as I see my Father do.

What I believe is what I create.  I can’t psyche myself up for this.  I can’t rely on formulas of repeating scripture over and over.  I can’t even have the concept myself aside from Him.  He created it through His Spirit. And His Spirit is within me.

He created the vision and the message and I believed it. It didn’t have to make sense. It was a creation of the Spirit and I only had to embrace it.  Then things would change.

THIS is the stuff that brings The Kingdom to Earth!  Ask, receive and do what we see.