This is going to be my advice to widows based on my one month experience as a widow and very little else. First, I would recommend to everyone that an inner conversation should begin now, before anyone is gone. One…

Hunny said, “I don’t care” and it set me free from guilt. Once again, as I traverse this road of hidden land mines and pits of destruction, Hunny has once again come to my rescue. It happened last night as…

Last night Father asked me if I was ready to go forward now. It surprised me because I thought I was going forward all along. However, I’d confided in a friend last year that I’d lost my mojo somewhere along…

In a moment my life changed. It was instantaneous. In the blink of an eye. Hunny was gone and that changed everything. All the big and the tiny details of our life were different now. And they would never be…

Lurking stealthily in the back corner of my mind was guilt over Hunny’s passing. I could have done my caregiving differently, more quickly, more intelligently, or more effectively. The fear monster was waiting to pounce. Waiting for the death certificate…

My 2 cents to anyone grieving would be to “Change your Mind”. Change how you SEE losing someone you love by radically flipping your thinking about how you see loss via death. Don’t choose to suffer so hard for so…

It seems I’m getting to know my dead spouse better than I did in 30+ years together. Maybe that’s because he isn’t dead. That was only his body. And now that he can see things more clearly, there’s a new…

When my Hunny left me and flew into Eternity, I wasn’t in the room. I had stepped out the side door to move our car. Only a few feet so the ambulance would have easy access. It was only a…

Recently, I heard J.P. Sears say, “I like nature. Nature doesn’t lie and we seem to be surrounded by lies in our world”. That resonated inside me. For 8-9 years I didn’t watch news or political broadcasts. Amazingly, life went…

There have been prophets and seers and mediums since the beginning of time. Millions of them. And there is only one way to know if they are truth bearers or not. That would be by hearing Father’s voice ourselves. I…